GUIDANCE FOR PARENT

As in my last blog I discussed on Child's dependence on their parents especially their moms. Here, today i will discuss on how u can guide them to be independent.

ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO BE INDEPENDENT.

A child who comes in the world is completely dependent on his parents but as he grows he wants to discover the world. The child normally tries to be independent from two years. From 3 years to 5 years, children tries being more independence i.e. at this stage they start opposing their parents. For example: child himself strives for food where as their mums wanted them to feed in order to not get their dress dirty, then wearing shoes by their own and etc. In real they wanted to be independent but their way is called opposing or conflicting. So here goes some methods or ways which can help you in guiding your cute and naughty children or young sisters and brothers. 

• Let kids do their own work like, let them eat food by their own, let them wear their shoes, change their dress, button their shirts, etc.
• The best way is to separate their room. Most mum dislikes to detached their kid from them but this helps a lot in eliminating their fear, anxiety and affiliation. If the child don't agree with being separated then in the beginning switch on the lights while they are asleep then slowly and gradually dim the lights to eradicate their fear.
•  Allow your child to contact and play with other children. Because some time this commitment becomes two ways, one is that the child's trust is disrupted and second they are not able to dominate their problems. In fact this commitment is within the child, i.e that some children are not able to help himself they want someone [from their family] to help him whereas after their childhood, parent should let the kid solve their issues or they should share their problems with them and then ask them how it can be resolved and appreciate them.

In my next blog I will share the mistakes which most parents do and their outcomes. Send your feedback and questions in the comment bar or share it on my fb page: https://www.facebook.com/mylifeurinspiration/ or send on my email id: moattarbhojani@gmail.com.