Tuesday, 30 July 2019

MISTAKES WHICH MOST PARENTS DO

As nobody is perfect. So being perfect for your children is impossible, but being a good role model for them is very important. Children follows what they sees rather what they are taught. So its important to be what you want your children to be.
 Where parents are the source of  a child's learning, parents do make some mistakes which are discussed below.
  • Under or overdoing with your kids:  One of the biggest mistakes which most parents do is either they overdo with their kids or they under do, that means that sometimes parents either leave children on their own or they become over protected which stop children from taking risk or children becomes over confident.
  • Not knowing your child: This is also one of the mistake which is been done accidentally or you can say by not giving attention. When we don't spend time with our children we don't know about their likes and dislikes, their interest and their boredom.
  • Believing our children are perfect: This is the mistake which can make child rebellion to your own self. When they are taught that they are perfect that means nobody can correct them and they can never do any mistakes, and if once it happens they rebel. they fight for themselves as they are perfect and can not do mistakes, so NEVER EVER believe that your child is perfect. 
  • Forgetting our actions speaks louder than words: THIS IS VERY TRUE. Parents should always remember that what they are doing, is what they teaching. It starts from the time you have conceived. Every action counts. 
  • Not allowing our kids to fail: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE, Always remember. There are few parents in this world who thinks that winning is every thing and they never allowed there child to fail, and that is very wrong. Failure is only an opportunity to begin again more intelligently. 
  • Paying attention to their bad behavior: The worst mistake of all. This happens when there are working parents or busy parents. They don't appreciate their child on their goods instead they scold them or worst of it they punish them on their bad. When there is no reward in good works then why punishments in bad. Just focusing on their bad behavior because some one told you or because it stresses you, This Is Bad Parenting.
  • Repeating instruction: There are few children who don't like giving instructions again and again. Even child psychology says that do not repeat your instructions to your child, wait for their response. if they forgets then ask them if they remember what they were told or just told them that they are waiting.

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